Intimacy

Intimacy between husband and wife is very sacred and should not be ashamed. Why we do it is to express our love to our spouse, bond souls, and on a more spiritual level it facilitates a more closeness with god, and renew our covenant.

Sometime you might feel like you are not confident in this area, but you need to have patience. Express your concerns to each other how to make this experience better for the both of you. Talk through your problems, issues and let the other person in the relationship know how you are feeling and where you are coming from. Maybe the person was molested or abused as a child or have other issues. Try to work them out between the two of you. If it still isn't fixed, you might need to seek professional help.
This is serious and we shouldn't treat intimacy as all fun and games. It should strictly be between husband and wife and no other people.